Corey Wesley

Founder, Co-Owner & Managing Editor. Corey has experience in the corporate financial services, training, brand development, and when he is not writing he's at home dancing nude with a glass of wine.
  • REBAR, Gay Bars NYC, Racism, Gay Men,

    Does REBAR NYC’s Newest Gay Bar Have Hidden Discriminatory Business Practices?

    When a new gay bar in NYC opens, it’s a time to rejoice and celebrate, but the opening of REBAR has been somewhat the opposite. In the first couple of weeks, the new bar seems to be finding itself at the center of controversy. Reportedly, a “posse” of African-American...
  • Cassius ft. Cat Power Pharell Williams | Go Up, Music Video, Music News, Cassius, Cat Power, Pharrell Williams

    Cassius’ Latest Video, ‘Go UP’ feat. Pharrell William is Mind-Blowing

    We are floored by Cassius’ new video featuring the mind-blowing talented, Pharrell Williams and Cat Power! Opposites attract and the proof is in this new video. The video pairs the two together in a split screen to create a masterpiece video. The first epic video of my time was...
  • Men's Health

    Common Causes of Thick Sperm

    Understanding your body and having a level of comfortability talking about sex is critical for a health sex life. Talking about sex enables you to understand when something is wrong and requires a doctor and when human nature telling you something. Masturbation is critical for men because it releases...
  • Misunderstood Social Worker, Gay Black Men, Gay Culture, Facebook Live

    The Misunderstood Social Worker Will No Longer Be Misunderstood

    Celebrity this, celebrity that is what we see feeding our news feeds but when you look closely you’ll see that the real stars are the individuals using Facebook Live or Instagram to spread positivity. It’s a shame, the soldiers fighting for change remain overshadowed by the sensationalism within mass media....
  • Gay Male Spirituality, The Art of Saying No, Communication Skills, Gay Relationship Advice, KinksterMAG.NYC

    “No.” Is A Complete Sentence: Say It & Mean It

    The statement “No is a complete sentence” is something I embraced seconds after hearing it from Judith Orloff, a renowned writer on the spiritual awakening of oneself. We all struggle with a 2-letter word not because it’s easy to say but because it’s robust and incredibly efficacious that we avoid...
  • Gay Dating Advice, Relationships, Gay Men

    Seeing Potential, Two Sides to the Story

    “He has potential” is a statement we’ve either said or heard when dating someone. Strangely my cousin and I were chatting the other day about relationships and how we date people who have potential. During our conversation, we both came to the conclusion that dating someone who has goals...
  • Gay Relationship Advice, Gay Men, Gay Friendships

    When A Friend Hides a Secret From You

    Secrets and lies are a common practice in our society, just look at our current Administration. Don’t worry, discussing the current political climate is not the point of my article. Secrets and lies among friends are what this article addresses. Recently, a close business associate of mine from Aviance...
  • Books to read, Gay relationship Advice, 5 Love Languages, Gary Chapman

    The Secret to Love that Lasts

    Why is love so complicated? Whether we’re in love, falling out of love or just longing for a new love the idea of love is something that does not come quickly or easy. When you find it, maintaining the essence of love is one of the most arduous tasks...
  • American RuPaul Genre: Dance Released: March 24, 2017

    RuPaul and Todrick Hall, New Music and Promotion Overdrive

    Out of all of RuPaul’s new tracks, ‘Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve & Talent’ is the best one. The beat is right, the concept of the song is brand specific, and it’s a great song for the final video that the top 3 contestants from RuPaul’s Drag Race appear in. We...
  • crystal meth, drug addiction, gay men and sex, gay relationships

    A Black Man’s Life After Crystal Meth

    Addiction is a complex topic and especially when you’re completely free from the disease. Addiction is a bitch, and it’s nothing to take lightly. However, it wasn’t until someone asked me, “what’s life like after crystal meth,” that I almost had a panic attack. The question causes a panic...
  • Spring Fever, Friendships, Breaking Up, Letting Go

    Spring Fever Can Change Your Friendships

    “Spring Fever” is a term frequently used to define a person in a relationship, restless and itching to explore when the weather breaks. It’s a feeling of restlessness and excitement felt at the beginning of spring. However, it’s not just those in intimate relationships that experience spring fever. As...
  • email, stress, hours, work, &quot, messages, time, pressure, &nbsp, levels, week, & email-related, day, output

    Your Emails Are Killing You

    A couple of weeks ago, I caught an episode of The Dr. Oz Show, and the topic was so compelling, I stopped what I was doing to watch. They were discussing emails and how we check our emails 20 to 100 times a day and how it’s affecting our...
  • Music News, iTunes, Remy Ma, Diss Tracks, Hip-Hop, Rap Music

    Nicki Minaj Responds to Remy Ma’s Diss Track

    Entertainment News has been chattering for several weeks over the beef between Remy Ma and Nicki Minaj. Last month, Remy Ma released a diss track, “Shether” in which she blasts Nicki for infidelity and of course having a fake ass. For new listeners this beef is not new, this...
  • Inspirational words, Oprah, Intentions, Positive Thinking, Mind & Spiritual

    Intentions To Set For Your Most Authentic Life

    Proclaiming a daily intention is a relatively new practice for me.  I started to repeat the question, “what is your intention?” after watching a brief video clip of Oprah speaking about one’s purpose and the impact it can have on your life. Initially, I felt weird doing it because the...
  • Gay Culture, Discrimination, Racism, Gay Men, Gay Bars

    Closeted Discrimination Within the Gay Community

    Discrimination and racism have become a hot topic nowadays and especially within the gay community. Every day when I log into Facebook, I see another comment, question or statement acknowledging the fact that racism exists within our community. I applaud anyone who stands up for what is right. Although,...
  • Music News, iTunes, Bielfield, Australia, RuPaul Drag Race, Courtney Act

    American Operatic Wonder Bielfield Releases “Dance Again” Feat. Courtney Act

    Musical artists from down under seldom receive the notoriety they deserve. Only a few have had crossover success like the Bee Gees, Kylie Minogue, AC/DC, Olivia Newtown-John, Iggy, Azalea, Sia, and my ultimate favorite Men at Work. As a music lover, my taste in music is extensive, but it...
  • Calm: Meditation to Relax, Focus & Sleep Better

    An App to Help You Stay Calm, Relax, Focus & Sleep Better

    Meditation can be challenging, and often our frustration with the process can cause us to give up too quickly. Meditation is a practice and as we all know “practice makes perfect.” Committing to the meditation process is harder when you’re attempting to do it on your own with no...
  • Music, Davis Mallory, Under Your Spell, MTV, Real World

    Davis Mallory Has the Power to Cast Spells By Using His Voice

    New Year, New Music and we have our finger on the pulse when it comes to music. When I was asked to check out newcomer and MTV Real World-er Davis Mallory’s new single, “Under Your Spell“; I was hesitant. Over the years, I placed bets on reality stars like...
  • Recovery, Drugs, Alcohol

    Dealing With the Twisted Fate of Sex After Drugs and Alcohol

    The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. Crystal meth was my drug of choice...
  • Funny Questions, Kinkster NYC

    13 Questions To Make You Go Hmmmm

    In the 90’s, Arsenio Hall coined the term, “things that make you go hmmm.” It was a chart-topping hit song by C+C Music Factory and surprisingly, at 45-years old there are still so many unanswered questions that continue to force me to go hmmm. Here are a few of...
  • President Trump, Equality, America, Women's March

    United We Stand, Divided We Fall

    All day today, I’ve had to keep reminding my Facebook friends that I am NOT here to debate. We each believe what we want. Personally, I hate politics because it seems to build walls, brew up negative emotions, and has no real resolution. I love everyone, but we are...
  • Business, Branding, Marketing, 4 Steps to Find the Right Social Media Brand Ambassador

    4 Steps to Find the Right Social Media Brand Ambassador

    We’re living in a period when being a celebrity is what our youth inspire to be, and it’s destroying the infrastructure of our society and how we do business. Like it or not, today’s Social Media sensation is the person who is key to selling products to consumers. Business...
  • Manly Bands, Wedding Rings

    Unique Wedding Bands As Impressive As You Are

    The varied selection of bold rings for men and the diversity of styles to fit any guy’s taste are some of the reasons we are adding Manly Bands to our list of fiery finds. These men’s bands range in cost, yet they are affordable. Browsing through the catalog of...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Culture

    Do You Ever Masturbate at Work?

    Did you catch that recent article from Time Out New York that indicates 39 percent of office workers admit to having masturbated in the office’s washroom? And it’s not just men. Men, women, gay and straight, everyone seems to be willing to admit to having “rubbed one out” in...
  • Spiritual Healing, Forgiveness

    Self Forgiveness Is Essential For Healing

    Forgiveness is how we grow; it’s also how we rid ourselves of unnecessary pain, guilt, and regret. It is always important to forgive yourself. I had to learn the hard way. When I refused to forgive myself and others, the negative energy and thoughts would build up within to...
  • Ports 1961: A Collection Inspired by Urban Workwear

    Army of Love Collection is a sleek one and fashion our current generation is ready for. You’ll find sharp lines, solid two-tone silhouettes, with hints of red or orange. Some pieces take inspiration from what you might find on a construction site. The bombers are reversible and coats have...
  • Music, Spiritual Healing, Men's Health, Mind, Body & Soul, Inspiration, Music Videos

    6 Songs To Get You Through Hard Times

    Where do you find inspiration when you’re struggling in life? What inspires you to keep moving through difficult times?  Two loaded questions I frequently ask myself and surprisingly my answers change daily. My trustworthy divine source (GOD), along with daily prayer, and self-love are the root of my inspiration and...
  • Spiritual Healing, Mind and Body, Men's Health

    How to Find Yourself When Feeling Lost

    “I’ve lost myself” are words we’re all familiar with but when you carefully examine the words, they make no sense. How can a person lose themselves? Physically, it is impossible for a person to lose themselves, but spiritually or mentally a person can lose their way quickly, and especially...
  • Gay Dating, Same-sex Relationships, Dating Tips,

    5 Steps to Prepare for a New Relationship

    The new year always sparks the love bug in me, and I am not the only one. A lot of guys at the beginning of the year reflect and think about finding love. However, finding love can be a challenge in the age of technology, and everybody is interested...
  • Mint Water, Men's Health

    Why You Should Be Drinking Mint Water

    How many times in your life have you heard that you should drink eight 8-ounce glasses of water a day? From adolescence, I hated drinking water, but over the years; I’ve come to appreciate the benefits of water. Hard evidence doesn’t support the “8 by 8” rule, but it’s...
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