• Gay Dating Advice, Relationships, Gay Men

    Seeing Potential, Two Sides to the Story

    “He has potential” is a statement we’ve either said or heard when dating someone. Strangely my cousin and I were chatting the other day about relationships and how we date people who have potential. During our conversation, we both came to the conclusion that dating someone who has goals...
  • Books to read, Gay relationship Advice, 5 Love Languages, Gary Chapman

    The Secret to Love that Lasts

    Why is love so complicated? Whether we’re in love, falling out of love or just longing for a new love the idea of love is something that does not come quickly or easy. When you find it, maintaining the essence of love is one of the most arduous tasks...
  • Gay Men, Gay Relationships, Lovemaking, Four-play, sexuality

    When Size Doesn’t Matter

    Does size and shape really matter? Most of us would probably say no in the grand scheme of our relationships, but when it comes down to pure satisfaction in the bedroom, I bet that answer would change. We’ve all said “it’s not the size of the ship, but the...
  • Lovely - Kinkster NYC

    How Technology Is Improving Your Bedroom Experience

    Do you always have sex on the brain? If so, you’re not the only one; men reportedly think about sex around eight times a day. Hell, if you’re like me, I think about sex every hour! I can’t be the only guy thinking about sex every second of the...
  • Recovery, Drugs, Alcohol

    Dealing With the Twisted Fate of Sex After Drugs and Alcohol

    The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. Crystal meth was my drug of choice...
  • Gay Dating, Same-sex Relationships, Dating Tips,

    5 Steps to Prepare for a New Relationship

    The new year always sparks the love bug in me, and I am not the only one. A lot of guys at the beginning of the year reflect and think about finding love. However, finding love can be a challenge in the age of technology, and everybody is interested...
  • Gay Dating Relationship Advice, Gay Men, Communication Skills, Text Messaging

    Stop Texting Him And Start Calling

    Texting is no longer a trend but a way of life. Lately, I have been chatting with several friends who each say they are interested in a guy but they have arrived in the land of confusion because all they do is text one another. One of those friends...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Dirty Bedroom Talk

    Dirty Talk is Better Than Viagra

    The fear of talking dirty in the bedroom is not uncommon. Being verbal during sex might sound nasty, but for someone like myself, having a partner who is comfortable verbally in the bedroom is a major turn-on! A man who can tap into his inner Kinkster is a man...
  • gay relationships, pathology and relationships, Break-Ups

    The Pathology of Relationships and Breakups

    Fuck, why are relationships complicated? And why is it even harder to let go of them when they become toxic or unhealthy? A close friend of mine who is heterosexual and married is struggling with ending her relationship; a relationship, in my opinion, that was over a long time...
  • Gay Hook Up Apps

    Hook Ups, One-Night-Stands No Longer Anonymous

    Before the age of online dating and social networking apps, gay bars were the go-to place for gay men to meet other gay men and potentially hook-up. Nightclubs, community centers, and other social events where hundreds of thousands of gay men felt a sense of community have also been...
  • Summer Bae, Sashay Away?

    As the summer winds down, you may be wondering what is going to happen with your summer fling (flings, if you’re nasty). After all, the summer is a season based on rather shallow ideals. We tend to look the hottest we look all year, we are the most fun...
  • gay dating, same-sex relationships, effects of porn, gay men, LGBTQ

    What Porn Does to Intimacy

    Compartmentalizing the physical act of sex from the emotional side of sex is nothing new among gay men but when the physical and the emotional combine, the fireworks fly and you have the best sex ever. In his article for the Huffington Post, “The Real Reason Why So Many Gay...
  • sex drive, monogamy, gay dating

    How to Handle Sex Drive Differences in a Monogamous Relationship

    Kinkster MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. I’m not a sex or relationship therapist so take my comments simply as someone who was in a long term monogamous relationship (10 years), who...
  • gay dating, gay men, NYC

    5 Fun & Frisky Daytime Date Ideas

    To celebrate one of my birthdays several years ago, my ex and bestie took me on a scavenger hunt / Amazing Race style run around New York City. We visited three fun venues I had never thought to explore. Taking time during the day was a great way to...
  • Gay Dating, Gay Relationships, Open Relatonships, Gay Men, InkedKenny,

    Open Relationships or Marriage, Which Is It

    Did you hear the news? Nearly half of gay men have had an open or non-monogamous relationship, and is this really any surprise? Open relationships within the gay community are more visibly common than ever. Analysts from a survey conducted by FS Magazine produced by The Gay Men’s Health...
  • Same-Sex Relationships, Same-Sex Dating, Gay Dating , Gay Leather

    Kink Sober Sex

    Kink sex is not the negative experience that some people believe it to be. In fact, the kink community is one of acceptance and understanding, where safety is paramount. Societies’ picture of kink sex still tends to be one depicting bestial humans torturing unwilling people with no level of...
  • gay relationships, lovemaking, Gay Men & Sex, Gay Men In Love

    Reasons Why We Have More Sex During The Summer

    Summer love sounds like a magical experience, but it’s honestly the worst time to meet someone new. It’s the one season when we proudly wear our rose-colored glasses and ignore all the potential warning signs. We get caught up with spring’s breezes shifting into summer’s sweltering heat and all...
  • Gay Dating Apps, Grindr, Men and Sex

    The Irreversible Impacts Of Grindr

    We all know it, almost all of us have used it, and so few of us actually love it. I am talking about Grindr, the gay app used primarily for finding hook ups that has been a source of turmoil in many of our lives since its initial release...
  • Drug Addiction, Party Drugs, PNP, Crystal Meth

    The Dangers of Dating Sober

    If you have done any amount of dating as a gay man recently, you are well aware that drugs are an unavoidable part of our community. You have cloud emojis on Grindr profiles, capital “T’s” for meth, requests for party and play, rave drugs, and a slew of new...
  • Gay Dating Tips, Ejaculation

    How Long Does It Really Take to Recharge After Sex

    Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics gay men like to talk about freely until they’re faced with the real issues or those untold truths. We’ve all been asked, “How soon after an orgasm can you start again?” The answer is usually, “a few minutes,” but unless you’re 18, you’re...
  • Love Between Men, Rik Isensee

    Being a Dating Expert is a Myth

    Is anyone ever an expert at dating? It is always strange when I hear someone say, “I’m a dating expert.” Honestly, I don’t believe someone can be an expert at dating, especially when dating today is nothing like how our grandparents dated, and oddly, nothing like how our parents...
  • same-sex-relationships

    Relationship Mistakes New Couples Make

    New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it...
  • gay-men-dating-new-relationships-love

    Stop Letting New Relationships Fail

    You are the only person who can make “YOU” happy. I want this to be a reminder that your reality is created because of YOU and not because of someone else. You have to know your own worth! When negative energy and fear invades a beautiful space called “LOVE”...
  • gay-men-dating-sexual-assualt-abuse-no-mens-no

    Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom

    “No Means No” is not just a slogan but a statement that should be taken seriously.  From personal experience gay men who I have slept with ignored this statement and preferred instead to challenge the fact I did not want them to play with my rear-end. I have experienced the...
  • gay-men-dating-porn-relationships-racism-opinion

    Is Interracial Porn Making You a Racist

    Porn or no porn? As an adolescent, images in National Geographic magazine made me blush, and that wasn’t even porn. Then there was my 18th birthday at which my uncle gifted me my first tittie mag, Hustler. Little did he know at the time, but I essentially became of...
  • gay-men-dating-hook-up-grindr-manhunt

    Real Hookups are Nothing Like Porn

    Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. Ask any gay man and each one has a hook-up nightmare story that will either have you laughing your brains out or running for the hills...
  • adult-products-gay-men-sex

    The Kinky Side of Poppers

    Headlines read, UK will soon ban ‘poppers.‘ What will the boys do? “The plan to outlaw poppers – or amyl nitrates – was part of the legislation to counter the rise of designer drugs blamed for 60 deaths in 2013 in England and Wales. However, for whatever reason, (probably...
  • LGBTQ, Gay Dating, Gay Relationship, Ex-Boyfriends, Friendships

    Dating A Friend’s Ex-Boyfriend

    Is it appropriate for a friend to date another friend’s ex-boyfriend? A handful would not have a problem with it yet others have strong opinions about this very debatable and uncomfortable topic. In my youth I had a major problem if a friend dated or were interested in dating someone...
  • sex-dating-gay-masturbation

    Is There Such A Thing… I Masturbate Too Much

    Can a guy masturbate too much? This is a question sexologists are faced with daily. Personally, I never thought I masturbated too much until I started to notice my desire to have sex decreasing tremendously. By and large, for single gay man, having sex is a significant part of...
  • Adult Products, Men and Sex, Lubricants, Swiss Navy Lube

    Lubricants That Will Improve Playtime in the Bedroom

    What constitutes good sex from bad sex? The classification of good or bad sex is based on an individual and whether his needs are met at the point of climax. Whether it’s having enough foreplay, verbal simulation, or role-play a person’s individual sexual desires are how a person generally determines...
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