• Same-Sex Relationships, Same-Sex Dating, Gay Dating , Gay Leather

    Kink Sober Sex

    Kink sex is not the negative experience that some people believe it to be. In fact, the kink community is one of acceptance and understanding, where safety is paramount. Societies’ picture of kink sex still tends to be one depicting bestial humans torturing unwilling people with no level of...
  • gay relationships, lovemaking, Gay Men & Sex, Gay Men In Love

    Reasons Why We Have More Sex During The Summer

    Summer love sounds like a magical experience, but it’s honestly the worst time to meet someone new. It’s the one season when we proudly wear our rose-colored glasses and ignore all the potential warning signs. We get caught up with spring’s breezes shifting into summer’s sweltering heat and all...
  • Gay Dating Apps, Grindr, Men and Sex

    The Irreversible Impacts Of Grindr

    We all know it, almost all of us have used it, and so few of us actually love it. I am talking about Grindr, the gay app used primarily for finding hook ups that has been a source of turmoil in many of our lives since its initial release...
  • Drug Addiction, Party Drugs, PNP, Crystal Meth

    The Dangers of Dating Sober

    If you have done any amount of dating as a gay man recently, you are well aware that drugs are an unavoidable part of our community. You have cloud emojis on Grindr profiles, capital “T’s” for meth, requests for party and play, rave drugs, and a slew of new...
  • Gay Dating Tips, Ejaculation

    How Long Does It Really Take to Recharge After Sex

    Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics gay men like to talk about freely until they’re faced with the real issues or those untold truths. We’ve all been asked, “How soon after an orgasm can you start again?” The answer is usually, “a few minutes,” but unless you’re 18, you’re...
  • Love Between Men, Rik Isensee

    Being a Dating Expert is a Myth

    Is anyone ever an expert at dating? It is always strange when I hear someone say, “I’m a dating expert.” Honestly, I don’t believe someone can be an expert at dating, especially when dating today is nothing like how our grandparents dated, and oddly, nothing like how our parents...
  • same-sex-relationships

    Relationship Mistakes New Couples Make

    New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it...
  • gay-men-dating-new-relationships-love

    Stop Letting New Relationships Fail

    You are the only person who can make “YOU” happy. I want this to be a reminder that your reality is created because of YOU and not because of someone else. You have to know your own worth! When negative energy and fear invades a beautiful space called “LOVE”...
  • gay-men-dating-sexual-assualt-abuse-no-mens-no

    Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom

    “No Means No” is not just a slogan but a statement that should be taken seriously.  From personal experience gay men who I have slept with ignored this statement and preferred instead to challenge the fact I did not want them to play with my rear-end. I have experienced the...
  • gay-men-dating-porn-relationships-racism-opinion

    Is Interracial Porn Making You a Racist

    Porn or no porn? As an adolescent, images in National Geographic magazine made me blush, and that wasn’t even porn. Then there was my 18th birthday at which my uncle gifted me my first tittie mag, Hustler. Little did he know at the time, but I essentially became of...
  • gay-men-dating-hook-up-grindr-manhunt

    Real Hookups are Nothing Like Porn

    Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. Ask any gay man and each one has a hook-up nightmare story that will either have you laughing your brains out or running for the hills...
  • Movies, Strange Love, Gay Love

    Love Strange: The Best Love Story Movie for Gay Men

    Ben (John Lithgow) and George (Alfred Molina) are a long-term older gay couple who marry after nearly four decades of being partners in Love is Strange. Their marriage, however, is not the only turning point in their lives. Although George’s employer, the archdiocese, knew of his sexual orientation and...
  • adult-products-gay-men-sex

    The Kinky Side of Poppers

    Headlines read, UK will soon ban ‘poppers.‘ What will the boys do? “The plan to outlaw poppers – or amyl nitrates – was part of the legislation to counter the rise of designer drugs blamed for 60 deaths in 2013 in England and Wales. However, for whatever reason, (probably...
  • LGBTQ, Gay Dating, Gay Relationship, Ex-Boyfriends, Friendships

    Dating A Friend’s Ex-Boyfriend

    Is it appropriate for a friend to date another friend’s ex-boyfriend? A handful would not have a problem with it yet others have strong opinions about this very debatable and uncomfortable topic. In my youth I had a major problem if a friend dated or were interested in dating someone...
  • sex-dating-gay-masturbation

    Is There Such A Thing… I Masturbate Too Much

    Can a guy masturbate too much? This is a question sexologists are faced with daily. Personally, I never thought I masturbated too much until I started to notice my desire to have sex decreasing tremendously. By and large, for single gay man, having sex is a significant part of...
  • Adult Products, Men and Sex, Lubricants, Swiss Navy Lube

    Lubricants That Will Improve Playtime in the Bedroom

    What constitutes good sex from bad sex? The classification of good or bad sex is based on an individual and whether his needs are met at the point of climax. Whether it’s having enough foreplay, verbal simulation, or role-play a person’s individual sexual desires are how a person generally determines...
  • sex-dating-jealousy-relationships

    Jealousy Doesn’t Exist When You Communicate

    Jealousy is a bitch.  I recently watched a heated argument between a “couple” in a bar and it was apparent they considered yelling an effective form of communication.  A relationship between two men can be rewarding, but also complex and challenging because a large population of men don’t know...
  • dating-men-love-romance

    Imagine The Possibilities of Love

    When we first meet that new “someone”, we are excited, enamored and jazzed about the possibilities of a beautiful love affair and all that it has to offer. We have our rose colored glasses on, see the mostly the good in people and love blooms. Then the quirks surface...
  • gay dating, gay relationships, one-night stands, men and sex

    Calling A One-Night Stand A Year Later

    On a beautiful September night in NYC, minding my own business, working on a business project, I received a text message, “Hey there.” It’s never a good sign when you don’t recognize the number and the clincher was it had no name associated with it. It’s a pet-peeve of...
  • gay dating relationship advice, Kinkster MAG, Gay Men

    When a Relationship Ends… It’s NOT Over!!!

    Society has, somewhat, programmed into us the ways we are to react when a relationship ends. I personally had to deprogram that nonsense because I found it to be debilitating and not very useful in getting rid of that “argh” feeling that most feel in the pit of their...
  • dating-same-sex-domestic-abuse

    Same-Sex Domestic Violence A Silent Epidemic

    Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that’s because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! The first and most important thing to know is ‘there is help’ and...
  • gay-men-dating-love-money-relationships

    Money Can’t Buy You Love in Relationships

    Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, “what can he buy me” to show they love me? A new car would be nice, those long stem roses and could you make it 3 dozen please? “Are you taking me to Fire Island this week or not?” Why...
  • sex-dating-meeting-the-family

    Meeting His Family Doesn’t Mean Anything

    Most gay men have been conditioned to believe being asked or asking someone to meet the family is a label for “it’s getting serious!” Are you joking? Consider this, an invite to dinner is only an invitation to eat, nothing more. Deciding to ask someone to dinner all depends...
  • dating-committment-relationships-sex

    Do You Have A Fear of Commitment

    A handful of gay men experience anxiety and fear when it comes to getting closer emotionally, making it difficult to commit. If and when the conversation about commitment comes up, are you the one who quickly exits the relationship? Is it possible your opinions and views about past relationships, the unknown,...
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