Gay Men and Sex

  • Men's Health

    Common Causes of Thick Sperm

    Understanding your body and having a level of comfortability talking about sex is critical for a health sex life. Talking about sex enables you to understand when something is wrong and requires a doctor and when human nature telling you something. Masturbation is critical for men because it releases...
  • crystal meth, drug addiction, gay men and sex, gay relationships

    A Black Man’s Life After Crystal Meth

    Addiction is a complex topic and especially when you’re completely free from the disease. Addiction is a bitch, and it’s nothing to take lightly. However, it wasn’t until someone asked me, “what’s life like after crystal meth,” that I almost had a panic attack. The question causes a panic...
  • Gay Men, Gay Relationships, Lovemaking, Four-play, sexuality

    When Size Doesn’t Matter

    Does size and shape really matter? Most of us would probably say no in the grand scheme of our relationships, but when it comes down to pure satisfaction in the bedroom, I bet that answer would change. We’ve all said “it’s not the size of the ship, but the...
  • Gay Culture, Discrimination, Racism, Gay Men, Gay Bars

    Closeted Discrimination Within the Gay Community

    Discrimination and racism have become a hot topic nowadays and especially within the gay community. Every day when I log into Facebook, I see another comment, question or statement acknowledging the fact that racism exists within our community. I applaud anyone who stands up for what is right. Although,...
  • Lovely - Kinkster NYC

    How Technology Is Improving Your Bedroom Experience

    Do you always have sex on the brain? If so, you’re not the only one; men reportedly think about sex around eight times a day. Hell, if you’re like me, I think about sex every hour! I can’t be the only guy thinking about sex every second of the...
  • Recovery, Drugs, Alcohol

    Dealing With the Twisted Fate of Sex After Drugs and Alcohol

    The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. Crystal meth was my drug of choice...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Culture

    Do You Ever Masturbate at Work?

    Did you catch that recent article from Time Out New York that indicates 39 percent of office workers admit to having masturbated in the office’s washroom? And it’s not just men. Men, women, gay and straight, everyone seems to be willing to admit to having “rubbed one out” in...
  • Men's Health, Gay Men, Drug Addiction, Crystal Meth, Drug Rehab

    Rediscovering Your Groove Without Meth

    The aftermath of crystal meth runs deep and affects gay men in a variety of ways. Sex after crystal meth can be complicated and often the reason for a relapse. When I stopped using, I was fearful of having sex without it. Not to glorify having sex on Meth...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Dirty Bedroom Talk

    Dirty Talk is Better Than Viagra

    The fear of talking dirty in the bedroom is not uncommon. Being verbal during sex might sound nasty, but for someone like myself, having a partner who is comfortable verbally in the bedroom is a major turn-on! A man who can tap into his inner Kinkster is a man...
  • Gay Men and Sex, teststerone

    #4EverHard: Naturally Increasing Testosterone

    Testosterone is often used to identify a man’s power, manhood, sex drive, and strength. And all these things are true, and influenced by testosterone and much more. It’s fascinating that most men don’t know how to protect their testosterone levels nor the full beauty and power of maintaining a...
  • Depression, HIV

    Depression is a Beast but it’s Not the End of Happiness

    Depression is a beast! It’s the silent killer of our joy. We never know when it’s going to hit and when it hits some of us, it’s like cement in the sky. Our interior lights of joy are dimmed by thoughts of failure and doubt, all coming from this...
  • HIV, Barebacking

    HIV Stigma and Barebacking, When Activists Fail

    We were recently taken aback by an anonymous fan’s email to Kinkster MAG. Images arrived to our inbox of a to-be-nameless high profile person who has been an ardent activist for reducing stigma associated with being HIV+. This person appears to be active on a hook up site devoted...
  • gay dating, same-sex relationships, effects of porn, gay men, LGBTQ

    What Porn Does to Intimacy

    Compartmentalizing the physical act of sex from the emotional side of sex is nothing new among gay men but when the physical and the emotional combine, the fireworks fly and you have the best sex ever. In his article for the Huffington Post, “The Real Reason Why So Many Gay...
  • sex drive, monogamy, gay dating

    How to Handle Sex Drive Differences in a Monogamous Relationship

    Kinkster MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. I’m not a sex or relationship therapist so take my comments simply as someone who was in a long term monogamous relationship (10 years), who...
  • Same-Sex Relationships, Same-Sex Dating, Gay Dating , Gay Leather

    Kink Sober Sex

    Kink sex is not the negative experience that some people believe it to be. In fact, the kink community is one of acceptance and understanding, where safety is paramount. Societies’ picture of kink sex still tends to be one depicting bestial humans torturing unwilling people with no level of...
  • Gay Dating Apps, Grindr, Men and Sex

    The Irreversible Impacts Of Grindr

    We all know it, almost all of us have used it, and so few of us actually love it. I am talking about Grindr, the gay app used primarily for finding hook ups that has been a source of turmoil in many of our lives since its initial release...
  • Vitamins, Herbs, Erections, Fresh From Earth

    Erection Is A Terrible Thing To Waste

    The size of every man’s penis is always a hot conversation and often a topic that men themselves don’t discuss. At some point or another, you’ve probably imagined or wondered about the size of another man’s penis or their ability to stay erect and and be functional. One thing...
  • Gay Dating Tips, Ejaculation

    How Long Does It Really Take to Recharge After Sex

    Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics gay men like to talk about freely until they’re faced with the real issues or those untold truths. We’ve all been asked, “How soon after an orgasm can you start again?” The answer is usually, “a few minutes,” but unless you’re 18, you’re...
  • Erectile Dysfunction, Vitamin D

    The Vitamin You Need To Improve Life in The Bedroom

    Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is a topic most men are uncomfortable with. It’s not uncommon for men over 40 to experience ED. That’s a scary thought for me since I am 44. Fortunately, everything is still working just fine. However, there are times when things seem to not work as...
  • mens-health-morning-wood-erections

    The Science of ‘Morning Wood’

    Men waking up with an erection is more common than you think.  Morning erections are often referred to as “morning wood” while scientifically it is called nocturnal penile turgescences.  It’s a normal and healthy physiological reaction and response that most men experience. Morning erections are really the ending of a...
  • gay-men-dating-porn-relationships-racism-opinion

    Is Interracial Porn Making You a Racist

    Porn or no porn? As an adolescent, images in National Geographic magazine made me blush, and that wasn’t even porn. Then there was my 18th birthday at which my uncle gifted me my first tittie mag, Hustler. Little did he know at the time, but I essentially became of...
  • gay-men-dating-hook-up-grindr-manhunt

    Real Hookups are Nothing Like Porn

    Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. Ask any gay man and each one has a hook-up nightmare story that will either have you laughing your brains out or running for the hills...
  • sex-dating-gay-masturbation

    Is There Such A Thing… I Masturbate Too Much

    Can a guy masturbate too much? This is a question sexologists are faced with daily. Personally, I never thought I masturbated too much until I started to notice my desire to have sex decreasing tremendously. By and large, for single gay man, having sex is a significant part of...
  • Adult Products, Men and Sex, Lubricants, Swiss Navy Lube

    Lubricants That Will Improve Playtime in the Bedroom

    What constitutes good sex from bad sex? The classification of good or bad sex is based on an individual and whether his needs are met at the point of climax. Whether it’s having enough foreplay, verbal simulation, or role-play a person’s individual sexual desires are how a person generally determines...
  • gay-men-dating-safe-sex-slip-guard

    New Ways To Protect Yourself During Sex

    Slut-shaming has recently become a hot topic within the gay community with the increase of gay men on PrEP. Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis, or PrEP, is a new HIV prevention strategy in which HIV-negative people use HIV antiretrovirals (ARVs), drugs usually used to treat HIV infection, to reduce their risk of becoming...
  • Gay Black Men, Gay Dating, Gay Relationships, Gay Community and Racism

    Is It Acceptable to Use the N-Word During Sex?

    The social climate for topics of race and racism is hot. However, in the gay community the topic of race and how it impacts us and manifests itself is something that is never talked about. During a recent conversation, the question was asked, “How do you feel about the...
  • Sex & Dating, HIV, AIDS

    When, Where and How Should You Bring Up Your HIV+ Status

    Do you think lovemaking is an art or a necessary evil? In a new a relationship do you struggle with when it’s appropriate to discuss sex? Do you frequently ask yourself, when, where, how? I have discovered that people are lost in the department of “pillow talk.” Even though...
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