Men and Sex

  • Adult Products

    Can I Please Stop Having Crappy Hook-ups

    “If you’re always ready, you don’t have to get ready” is a quote I wish someone would have shared with the last four guys that I’ve hooked up with who were all total bottoms over 40. If so I would not be needing to air my dirty laundry (pun...
  • medical professionals desk

    CDC Reports Steep and Sustained Increases in STDs

    This week the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) released preliminary data at the National STD Conference in Washington, DC. They reported that nearly 2.3 million cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis were diagnosed in the United States in 2017. This surpassed the previous record set in 2016...
  • Men's Healthy, Men & Sex, Erectile Dysfunction

    Holistic Cure for Erectile Dysfunction

    As I was riding the subway one day, I noticed an ad “Roman,” get roman.com/nyc. The ad was about erectile dysfunction meds. The ad states “% of men experience erectile dysfunction but 52% have a ‘friend’ want to learn more.” I thought it was a tongue-in-cheek ad on a...
  • Kinkster MAG, Valentine's Day, Gay Relationship Advice,

    Is Valentine’s Day for Lovers Only?

    I popped into Duane Reade recently and that candy isle filled with pink and red hearts has reappeared. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. As I started to reflect on what’s in store for me this year, I’ve learned there is a growing trend to reframe Valentine’s Day...
  • Michael Lucas Entertainment, Adult Films

    Exclusive: Up Front and Personal Interview with Michael Lucas

    Michael Lucas has reached a new milestone, 20 years in the adult industry. The Russian–Israeli-American Lucas is a gay pornographic film actor, director, activist, writer and the founder/CEO of Lucas Entertainment, New York City’s largest gay-adult-film company. He has been a columnist for The Advocate, Huffington Post and Pink...
  • Orgasm, Gay Men & Sex, Stuart Sanford, Cumfaces

    What Is Your Orgasm Face?

    Our orgasm face is something we either are embarrassed by or struggle to hide during a climax, an intense moment. It can also be a moment when two people connect. Our facial expressions can tell the full story; a story filled with the truth whether or not sex was...
  • Gay Dating Apps, Jack'd, Gay Men

    Stalkers Beware of Jack’d 4.0

    Safety and privacy have always been concerns of mine when using hook up apps like Grindr, Scruff, and Jack’d. I have personally witnessed guys taking screenshots of profiles to either save or share with other guys to compare notes. Once it happened to me, I was frustrated that guys...
  • Gay Men, Gay Relationship Advice, Sex Advice

    During Sex, Is It Okay to Talk About Someone Else

    Hook-up apps and websites have made it easier to find sex than love, but have they improved the quality of sex we are having? Without a doubt, we’re having more sex compared to when hook-up apps did not exist which also means our ratio of bad sexual experiences has...
  • Men's Health

    Common Causes of Thick Sperm

    Understanding your body and having a level of comfortability talking about sex is critical for a health sex life. Talking about sex enables you to understand when something is wrong and requires a doctor and when human nature telling you something. Masturbation is critical for men because it releases...
  • crystal meth, drug addiction, gay men and sex, gay relationships

    A Black Man’s Life After Crystal Meth

    Addiction is a complex topic and especially when you’re completely free from the disease. Addiction is a bitch, and it’s nothing to take lightly. However, it wasn’t until someone asked me, “what’s life like after crystal meth,” that I almost had a panic attack. The question causes a panic...
  • Gay Dating Advice, Relationship Tips,

    Size Matter?

    Do size and shape really matter? Most of us would probably say no in the grand scheme of our relationships, but when it comes down to pure satisfaction in the bedroom, I bet that answer would change. We’ve all said, “it’s not the size of the ship, but the...
  • Gay Culture, Discrimination, Racism, Gay Men, Gay Bars

    Closeted Discrimination Within the Gay Community

    Discrimination and racism have become a hot topic nowadays and especially within the gay community. Every day when I log into Facebook, I see another comment, question or statement acknowledging the fact that racism exists within our community. I applaud anyone who stands up for what is right. Although,...
  • Lovely - Kinkster NYC

    How Technology Is Improving Your Bedroom Experience

    Do you always have sex on the brain? If so, you’re not the only one; men reportedly think about sex around eight times a day. Hell, if you’re like me, I think about sex every hour! I can’t be the only guy thinking about sex every second of the...
  • Recovery, Drugs, Alcohol

    Dealing With the Twisted Fate of Sex After Drugs and Alcohol

    The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. Crystal meth was my drug of choice...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Culture

    Do You Ever Masturbate at Work?

    Did you catch that recent article from Time Out New York that indicates 39 percent of office workers admit to having masturbated in the office’s washroom? And it’s not just men. Men, women, gay and straight, everyone seems to be willing to admit to having “rubbed one out” in...
  • Men's Health, Gay Men, Drug Addiction, Crystal Meth, Drug Rehab

    Rediscovering Your Groove Without Meth

    The aftermath of crystal meth runs deep and affects gay men in a variety of ways. Sex after crystal meth can be complicated and often the reason for a relapse. When I stopped using, I was fearful of having sex without it. Not to glorify having sex on Meth...
  • Gay Men & Sex, Dirty Bedroom Talk

    Dirty Talk is Better Than Viagra

    The fear of talking dirty in the bedroom is not uncommon. Being verbal during sex might sound nasty, but for someone like myself, having a partner who is comfortable verbally in the bedroom is a major turn-on! A man who can tap into his inner Kinkster is a man...
  • Gay Men and Sex, teststerone

    #4EverHard: Naturally Increasing Testosterone

    Testosterone is often used to identify a man’s power, manhood, sex drive, and strength. And all these things are true, and influenced by testosterone and much more. It’s fascinating that most men don’t know how to protect their testosterone levels nor the full beauty and power of maintaining a...
  • Depression, HIV

    Depression is a Beast but it’s Not the End of Happiness

    Depression is a beast! It’s the silent killer of our joy. We never know when it’s going to hit and when it hits some of us, it’s like cement in the sky. Our interior lights of joy are dimmed by thoughts of failure and doubt, all coming from this...
  • HIV, Barebacking

    HIV Stigma and Barebacking, When Activists Fail

    We were recently taken aback by an anonymous fan’s email to Kinkster MAG. Images arrived to our inbox of a to-be-nameless high profile person who has been an ardent activist for reducing stigma associated with being HIV+. This person appears to be active on a hook up site devoted...
  • gay dating, same-sex relationships, effects of porn, gay men, LGBTQ

    What Porn Does to Intimacy

    Compartmentalizing the physical act of sex from the emotional side of sex is nothing new among gay men but when the physical and the emotional combine, the fireworks fly and you have the best sex ever. In his article for the Huffington Post, “The Real Reason Why So Many Gay...
  • sex drive, monogamy, gay dating

    How to Handle Sex Drive Differences in a Monogamous Relationship

    Kinkster MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. I’m not a sex or relationship therapist so take my comments simply as someone who was in a long term monogamous relationship (10 years), who...
  • Same-Sex Relationships, Same-Sex Dating, Gay Dating , Gay Leather

    Kink Sober Sex

    Kink sex is not the negative experience that some people believe it to be. In fact, the kink community is one of acceptance and understanding, where safety is paramount. Societies’ picture of kink sex still tends to be one depicting bestial humans torturing unwilling people with no level of...
  • Gay Dating Apps, Grindr, Men and Sex

    The Irreversible Impacts Of Grindr

    We all know it, almost all of us have used it, and so few of us actually love it. I am talking about Grindr, the gay app used primarily for finding hook ups that has been a source of turmoil in many of our lives since its initial release...
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